Friday 8 June 2012

Relax, let your face do the talking


You’ve met this really gorgeous hunk. The date’s going well, and you definitely want more. So how do you make sure he knows? You certainly can’t just tell him. But if he’s serious, his subconscious will be looking for your “green light” signals anyway. So make sure he sees them, and all will be well.

But as you begin to get the hots for someone, your eyes start drifting over his body as well. And the lingering looks gradually build up. To begin with, you’ll just be catching his eyes briefly, and then looking down, maybe with a hint of embarrassment. But, as the evening progresses, look into his eyes for longer. And smile. A bit shyly to begin with, but more and more openly as things warm up. All around the world, this sequence is universal signal that melts a man’s heart.

A natural, happy smile also says that you are enjoying his company. Because he’ll spot a fake - your eyes won’t seem to be lighting up. And when you’re not smiling? Let you bottom lip relax slightly so he gets just a glimpse of your teeth.

From time to time, let your gaze linger on his lips a little longer. He’ll subconsciously start thinking about kissing. And if you’re feeling good about him, your eyes will be wide open and huge. It’s the reason why dining by candlelight’s so romantic - because you pupils dilates in the dim light! But did you know you’ll also be blinking more? Try deliberately raising your blink rate slightly and see if he does the same. If he does, he’s feeling good about you too. But don’t go overboard or he’ll just think that something’s flown into your eye!

Cuddly girl

Touching your face, mouth or hair sends the subconscious signal that you’re a cuddly girl and that you would like to touch him and to be touched.

Other signals make him feel protective towards you and romantic. Like slightly tilting your head as you look at him, twiddling with your hair or biting your lower lip. And don’t pick at your food. Because guys subconsciously think that a good appetite means you’ll be just as enthusiastic in bed!
And him? How do you tell whether he’s into you too? If something good’s happening, his eyebrows will rise, his pupil dilate, his lips part and his nostrils flare slightly.

But don’t work too hard at all of this. Once you know how your face signals whether you’re keen, you can stop thinking about it and let your subconscious do everything for you. Like the good driver who no longer has to think about the details of changing the gear.
So just relax and let your face do the talking

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